Stop monitoring your husbands phone calls - Charlotte Oduro

Counsellor advises wonder to stop hounding their men.

Stop monitoring your husbands phone calls - Charlotte Oduro
Dr Charlotte Oduro

Marriage counsellor, Dr Charlotte Oduro, known for making controversial comments has admonished women to stop the "bad habits of monitoring the phone calls of their spouses.

She advised women to stop hounding their partners and to give space for healthy relations instead of choking the life out of their partners with non-stop tracking.

She pointed out that the habit of tracking one's spouse never ends well and it is not good for any of the parties involved as the women will lack peace of mind and the men will eventually be pushed towards side chicks in a bid to find peace and quiet. 

“Let’s stop the fan from taking his phone and saying who did you call, who were you speaking to…please. We have gotten to a point where we are grown.Women grow up and stop being suspicious. Whoever is calling is not your business, do your part as a woman in the home.We should not do that. Allow people…give them a chance. Give them allowance”,

 

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“Which girl were you standing with? How can you marry someone like me when, after every service I have numerous people who come to talk to me? I call everybody hello darling, hello sweetheart, hello dear and you are thinking he is referring to some of them as dear or sweetheart, then I am dead”.

“You are a villager. These accolades are used in the line of duty so don’t be a villager to the point that when someone use them it means that he has something to do with the person. Don’t be over possessive. The fact I am in a relationship with you does not mean you have bought me over”, she stated.

She claims that if a woman does her part well in the marriage it will foster the love and bonds between them anytime. She asserted that slower building of affection is bound to last longer that the momentary neurotic satisfaction gained from hounding.